Having a healthy work-life balance is important. If you just focus on one thing, then you will just feel miserable. In my opinion, it is best if we can keep them both at a level that we can enjoy them. Believe me, it is not something that is easy to do, but I want you to keep on moving forward. You are going to have to try as hard as you can to make it happen, though, that is for sure.
I end up in the darnedest of places.